Why We Never Miss a Marriage Counseling Session
✔️ Another couples therapy session completed.
I’ll admit, I’m not always eager to attend, but every month, I show up with my wife, Meg.
These sessions aren’t always easy. Sometimes they’re tough, uncomfortable, and emotionally exhausting. Whether it’s a recent disagreement over something we’re both passionate about, or deeper issues like childhood traumas, the shame of divorce, co-parenting struggles, or blending our families, the conversations are real and raw.
At times, I’m an emotional mess, especially when the Holy Spirit breaks through my stubbornness. But through the tears, apologies, and forgiveness, we’ve seen the rewards of these check-ins time and time again.
Not every session is heavy, though. Some are light, hopeful, and filled with laughter, dreaming about our blended family’s future.
Through it all, Meg and I have learned to communicate better, actively listen, and truly understand each other’s hearts. Our intimacy has grown deeper as we’ve rediscovered how to play, love, and care for one another. We’ve come to realize that the real enemy isn’t each other—it’s the evil one who wants to tear apart what we can achieve together.
And it's not just us who benefit—our kids do, too. They thrive when we thrive, drawing confidence and joy from our love and commitment.
Even if you're parenting solo, loving and caring for yourself sets a powerful example, creating a healthy, supportive environment for your kids. It also prepares you to give your heart fully and healthily when love knocks again.
When we were dating, Meg and I talked about our goals, which included marriage counseling so we could be proactively healthy in our relationship. We didn’t want just to survive as a couple, we wanted to experience the best marriage possible. Starting regular sessions with our counselor was one of the wisest decisions we've made.
Recently, friends of ours celebrated their twentieth anniversary with a vow renewal. They shared that marriage counseling was the key to not only saving their marriage but also helping them thrive in their relationship. This is advice we think every couple should hear—therapy isn’t just for crisis resolution; it’s the key to improving relationships and enhancing your overall mental health.
Our church leadership encouraged me to prioritize my mental and spiritual health over job obligations, providing support and resources when needed. There’s no shame in seeking guidance—our marriage is worth it, and yours is too.
Couples therapy isn’t a magic fix, but it helps. Why wait for trouble? Start building a stronger and healthier relationship right now.
